Friday, May 13, 2011

Amazing

Yesterday at lunch we were listening to a cd I had gotten from the library. A song by Bruno Mars called "Just the Way You Are" came on and Miles "Music Lover" Lorentzen started singing along. He then said that this was his favorite song. And it was his mommy's favorite song because "She loves it when my daddy and I sing it to her because she is amazing. She's SO amazing."

My heart is melting!!! Then Caden says "My mommy is amazing too! I love her!" Tears are coming to my eyes. These children are too cute! Miles responds with "I love my mommy" and continues singing along with Bruno Mars.

As I gaze at these wonderful children that I care for every day I look longingly at my own child. What precious words of love will he have? "MOM! I NEED more ketchup!"

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Careful

Bennett: We have to be careful with Graysie. (Why you ask is he calling him Graysie. Good question.)

Caden: I know. Cause if you hit him in the face he will go 'Waaaaaaaaaaaa. Waaaaaaa.'

This informational tidbit brought to you by the smart boys.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Manipulation 6 year old style

So yesterday Harrison had a bit of a meltdown. There is a back story to why he melted down but it isn't important to the humorous part of the story.

Harrison had been yelling at me for awhile. In recent weeks we have taken on a new and fairly effective strategy of not listening or responding when Harrison is yelling at us. He knows this, but we remind him as we feel is necessary. When he started on this yelling crusade I politely reminded him that I was not ignoring him, I was just choosing not to listen until he started talking to be in a calm, normal voice. 20 minutes later...

I am sitting in the office and Harrison is yelling. I am not looking at him.

"Why aren't you listening to me? MOM!!! MOM!!! Why!!! Why aren't you listening to me?!?!

"I am going to remind you once more that I am not going to listen to you unless you are not yelling."

Harrison is suddenly silent. With great difficulty he says through a controlled sob: "I'm not yelling now."

As I turn to look at him I say: "O.K. Harrison what do you want to say?"

He gets about 4 inches from my face and yells: "BUT I'M YELLING NOW!!!!"

At this point I came very close to losing my cool. But not in a 'I'm going to rip your head off' kind of way. It is in a 'I don't know if I can keep from laughing in your face' kind of way. Who does this child think he is and where does he get this stuff!?!?!

Friday, April 8, 2011

Sharing


While kissing on Harrison this afternoon he started pulling away from me.

Me: Hey - don't pull away. I am the only girl that gets to kiss you!!

Harrison: No your not!

Me: What other girls have been kissing on you?!?!

Harrison: My grandmas. (shy smile)



I don't always share well...


Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Annie, Annie, mad at Mommy

This morning during reading time, Bennett selected "llama, llama, mad at mama" by Anna Dewdney. We have read other Llama, llama books, but never this one. Before we started I asked everyone if they had been mad at their mama's before.

Bennett: "No. (smiles and gives me a kiss!)

Miles: (sheepish smile) "Nooooooo!"

Caden: "Never!!!"

Annabelle: She gets the biggest smile she has had all morning and shakes her head vigorously up and down!!! I guess she's the only truth-teller I had today. :)

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Random Days

Random days and random pictures.

Celebrating Dr. Suess's birthday and huddling around the kid computer.


What did you say? Maddie is not a horse? Oh, I didn't know...


"We're the three best friends that anyone could have!" (BTW... Miles is shouting FRIENDS!!!!)


Bennett and his babies. They don't look like willing participants in this photo op!


I'm surprised that we don't have cases of mono going on in my house cause there is a lot of kissing going on!!! :)

Caden and Bennett LOVE hidden picture puzzles. This was on a Friday afternoon when Miles had gone home early so I decided to try and take a nap on his bed. Within 10 minutes, Bennett and Caden decided that their quiet time was over and they would join me. Eventually there was not enough room for me!

Bennett often leads the reading after lunch. Sometimes I wonder if he has some sort of crazy memory because he can often repeat books word-for-word after we read them. He really pays attention!!! :)


I am doing everything I can to get Harrison to love reading as much as I do without making it seem like reading is a punishment so I was THRILLED when Bennett showed me the picture that he had just taken! He is a great reader, but he seems to think that he should only read at school! I checked out some Young Cam Jansen books at the library and that is what he is reading here. He likes the mystery of finding out what is going to happen next!

Game One of Thirty-six

Sports season has started once again in the Neipert household. The difference this year is that Bennett is old enough to play baseball, Harrison went from 8 baseball games a season to TWENTY, and Harrison decided that he really wanted to do Spring Soccer as well as Fall Soccer. That means we have up to 3 practices a week and sometimes 3 - 6 games a week depending on the week. This goes on until the second week of June so there is an end in sight!

It may seem like I am complaining, but really it is a lot of fun. Harrison's first soccer game was this morning and he did AWESOME. He scored 3 goals and was always moving and looking for a way to score or play wonderful defense. I'm glad I didn't say no to him when he said he wanted to play soccer. He loves it! I worry a little about "over-scheduling" the kids but I think we will do just fine. It is Chris and I that I worry about! Chris is taking on ALL of the practices and games, while I try and take off enough work to just get to all of the games. Hopefully we remember to feed everyone... :)


Harrison in action!!


Harrison and Josh discussing their awesomeness...


Celebrating a goal. What a great teammate!!!


Bennett was at the game too. It just might have been a little cold for his liking!!

Friday, March 25, 2011

He's better


Bennett's surgery was on March 8th and on March 17th he told me that he was all better. He didn't have any bumps in his throat making him sick. AWESOME!!!!!! Only 9 days!!!!!!

The whole experience was fairly underwhelming in the best possible way. I don't really know what my expectations were, but I did feel there would be lots of crying, lots of whining and lots of napping. What happened was there was a little crying (mostly at night when he woke up because his throat was dry), a little whining (mostly when I took the iPad away because he had played it for over an hour!) and no napping. I think he napped a total of 2 times and those 2 times were at 4:30 in the afternoon when he just couldn't fight it any more!

We scheduled the surgery to coincide with Spring Break. Claudia was off on Spring break for 2 weeks so the week of Bennett's surgery I only had Caden and Greysen and Harrison was at school Monday - Wednesday. His Spring Break started on Thursday. Wednesday (day after surgery) Caden had preschool and I thought Bennett would fight not being able to go but he was really ok. Thursday was another story and after Harrison's WONDERFUL conferences, I gave in and took Bennett to school for about an hour. He did just fine, but I was still glad I didn't let him go the whole time and be there without me. He was a little tired when we left and I think it would have been too much for him to be there the whole 2 1/2 hours.

The only real hiccup of the whole experience was the waking at night. We had a humidifier going in his room, but Bennett sleeps on his back and his throat would just get too dry. He woke up 7 nights straight about 2 times a night. He would cry and cry until we forced some Tylenol in him and got him to drink something. Then he would pass out from exhaustion. Eating could have been a problem, except that we just choose not care what he ate for 14 days. Chris and I talked about it and we decided that these 14 days would go by quickly and in the grand scheme of his long life it didn't matter what he consumed in this short amount of time. Bring on the jell-o and ice cream!!!! Turns out it didn't matter. The child is a pig! I don't know why he doesn't weigh 100 pounds. He enjoyed Jell-o, chicken and stars soup, and lots of Gatorade. He also did not give up on his obsession with Hunchy, Bontsy Boats (Honey Bunches of Oats). He didn't have them for breakfast on Wednesday, but everyday after that he gave them a try and by the weekend it either didn't hurt or he didn't care.

The week after his surgery was Spring Break and other than waking up at night it was tough to remember that he had just had his tonsils out. We went to Johnny's for a playdate, went to the zoo and saw penguins, went to a music concert to see Denise Forney perform and met up with Kari, Will and Cale at the St. Paddy's Day parade. So much for being sick and miserable for 14 days. Lucky kid (and mom)!!!!!!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Surgery


Bennett had his tonsils and adenoids taken out this morning and ear tubes put in. It has been an interesting day.

We have always noticed that Bennett breathes a little funny. You can hear him breath and when he is sitting (reading, watching tv, etc) he breathes really heavy. It has never been an issue that we have been concerned about. He doesn't tire easily from exercise and he is never wheezing or trying to catch his breath. He does snore louder than any normal human should and his mouth is almost constantly open.
Sooooo... at a doctor's appointment a couple of months ago, I asked his pediatrician about it. She said that it sounded like sleep apnea and referred us to an Ear-Nose-Throat doctor. We had heard the sleep apnea opinion before. I wasn't terribly worried or anything but I figured that his tonsils and adenoids were coming out.

We met with Dr. Schulte on February 16th and were in for a bit of a surprise. Not only were his tonsils and adenoids coming out, they were HUGE! His adenoids were so large that they were causing fluid to build up behind his ear drums which in turn was causing him to hear like he constantly had his fingers stuck in his ears. OMG!!! Dr. Schulte was a little surprised at my reaction when he told us that we were going to go the ear tube route as well as the tonsils/adenoids. Of the two procedures, the ear tubes are obviously the minor. But, did he not understand that for the past however many months (probably 6 - 8) my baby couldn't hear?!?!?! I was shocked and sad. Why, when Bennett said "What, I can't hear you?" hadn't I taken this as a clue that he actually couldn't hear me!!! It was probably because I mistakenly thought that his excessive waxy build-up in his ears was causing him to not be able to hear me, but I really felt very guilty and thought that I should have picked up on the real problem somehow. What was lucky for us was that the fluid behind his ears was not infected and was not getting infected terribly easily. He had a couple of ear infections in the last 4 months, but nothing really horrible.

That led us to surgery today. We have been preparing by telling Bennett that the doctor was going to fix his ears and throat. I don't know that he knew there was a problem with his ears and throat, but once we told him that they were going to get fixed he was all about drinking lots of juice the weekend before the surgery! We got up this morning and collected new Douglas (looooong story) and our doctor blanket (THANK YOU, Caden!) and off to the surgery center we went. Greg and Pam were with us and my mom met us there. Harrison got a ride to school from Mrs. Mathews and got to stop at Panera to get a bagel and orange juice ("The orange juice had PULP in it!!!!"). They didn't let us come back with him to fall asleep and there were a few tears on his side and mine, but Dr. Schulte said that he was very brave.

After surgery he woke up crying which is very common. They put him on my lap and he fussed for a couple of minutes and then slept for an hour. They discharged us with a few instructions and then we were home. The timeline was, 7:30am - arrival and check-in, 7:45am - pre-op and nurse visit, 8:35am - doctor consultation, 8:44am - stole my baby, 9:20am - gave my baby back, 10:35am - out the door. I still think it is crazy that the whole thing was so quick, even though from 8:44am to 9:20am time was standing still and my heart was cracking.

When we got home Bennett wanted his promised Jello for breakfast. It was 11:00am but I wasn't going to tell him that this was more like lunch. He was so excited for the rare "Jello for breakfast" treat! He then had some juice and I tried to give him some chicken noodle soup broth and some applesauce before giving him his tylenol with codeine, but he didn't really want any. So 20 minutes after I gave him the tylenol, I wasn't really all that surprised when he threw-up liquid all over me. His second dose of tylenol with codeine was preceded by a Go-gurt!

Other than that it has been a strangely normal afternoon. Bennett wouldn't take a nap so we watched a movie and then he followed Chris around while he did some chores and then we played a little catch and followed that with some Legos. Currently we are watching some cartoons and getting ready for bed. I hope the honeymoon period continues for the next 13 days!!!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Christmas in March

Not the best picture quality or correct time of year, but still pretty cute and funny!


Harrison's first Christmas - 2004


Harrison's second Christmas - 2005


Harrison's third Christmas - 2006


Bennett's first Christmas - 2007


Christmas 2008


Christmas 2009


Christmas 2010